*Four omplete Women*
🌸 Note 1⃣7⃣
Maryam bint Imran – (مريم بنت عمران)
🍊 When you’re sad, then you should eat and drink, but don’t eat or drink too much when you’re happy. 🍲You need to eat and drink when sad to gain strength, though you don’t have the desire for it.
🌱 The case of Maryam (as) is relatable to every woman because whether married or not, we all go through difficulties.
🌱 In times of problems, don’t speak. *A complete woman shouldn’t speak when she’s sad because she can say something wrong*Maryam (as) signalled that she made a vow to not speak. When in a problem, don’t speak because you can be misunderstood. When you speak to anyone about your problems, it will get worse because either they will panic and advise you wrongly or they react the other way and say ‘it’s no big deal’ – ‘is that your problem❓’. Whatever Allah (swt) gives you is what you can bear because others will either be restless or they’ll underestimate you, and it’ll just make you sadder than before.
🍊 Who will speak on Maryam’s behalf❓ Her son Eisa (as). When you don’t speak, Allah (swt) will bring someone to speak on your behalf.
🔹Hadith: The Prophet (ﷺ) said:
(استعينوا على إنجْاحِ الحوائِجِ بالكتمانِ ؛)
(Seek help in Allah (swt) to fulfill your needs in private)
🔹Sahih Aj Jam’iee 943, Authenticated by Albani as Sahih.
🍊 You don’t need to announce your problems to everyone. It’s better to deal with your problems secretly so that you’re not confused with other’s viewpoints. Allah (swt) knows what you can bear and Maryam (as) went what she went through in order to be elevated. A complete woman is not the woman who spreads her news or tells everyone her problems. 🌼The complete woman overcomes her sadness; you are responsible for your happiness with the help of Allah (swt)🌼We get sad wanting someone else to come and remove our sadness, we think our sadness will go away if our husband takes us out, but we’re responsible for our happiness.
✨ Surah At Tahreem 12:
(وَمَرۡيَمَ ٱبۡنَتَ عِمۡرَٲنَ ٱلَّتِىٓ أَحۡصَنَتۡ فَرۡجَهَا فَنَفَخۡنَا فِيهِ مِن رُّوحِنَا وَصَدَّقَتۡ بِكَلِمَـٰتِ رَبِّہَا وَكُتُبِهِۦ وَكَانَتۡ مِنَ ٱلۡقَـٰنِتِينَ)
_(And Maryam (Mary), the daughter of ‘Imrân who guarded her chastity; and We breathed into (the sleeve of her shirt or her garment) through Our Rûh [i.e. Jibril (Gabriel)], and she testified to the truth of the Words of her Lord [i.e. believed in the Words of Allâh: “Be!” and he was; that is ‘Īsā (Jesus) son of Maryam (Mary) as a Messenger of Allâh], and (also believed in) His Scriptures, and she was of the Qanitun (i.e. obedient to Allâh).)_
🌱 Maryam (as) guarded her chastity and honor and she was of the devotees.
Recap of what made *Maryam (as) a complete woman*:
🔦 Her devotion and worship to Allah (swt) made her complete.
🔦 She’s complete because she’s relying on Allah (swt) for rizq. She knows Allah (swt) will provide her with no hisab.
🔦 The complete woman is a chaste woman protecting herself from fitna.
🔦 She is a complete and beautiful woman because of her modest and decent language.
🔦 The complete woman controls her sadness and emotions.
🔦 The complete woman is active.
🔦 A complete woman is not the woman who spreads her news or tells everyone her problems. The complete woman overcomes her sadness; you are responsible for your happiness with the help of Allah (swt).