*Four Complete Women*
🌸 Note 3⃣
🍇 Humans are different in their creation and their character. Some humans are beautiful, some are ugly, some can see, and some are blind, some can hear, and some are deaf. So there are differences between people in creation. You can find people with good manners, some with bad, some who talk good and some who talk bad.
🌱 Even if you see a person born blind, this blindness is perfection for him. Whatever features or character a person is born with, this is perfection for him. But other people would say, ‘poor him, he’s disabled, etc’. Their fault is their way to perfection and we need to believe this.
🌱 From all of mankind, *the most perfect of creation are the prophets and messengers.* Allah (swt) looked at all of creation, and chose the messengers and prophets to be the best of creation. He gave them the perfect image and character. They are perfect in their creation and character and we need to believe this.
🔹Surah Al An’am 124:
(ٱللَّهُ أَعۡلَمُ حَيۡثُ يَجۡعَلُ رِسَالَتَهُ)
_(Allâh knows best with whom to place His Message)_
🍇 One of the scholars said the best images and characters belong to the messengers and prophets. And if anyone accuses any of the messengers to have faults in his image, then as if he’s harming that messenger, istaghfar Allah. Similar to Musa (as) who would bathe covered so the people accused him of having a defect, then Allah (swt) willed to have his clothing blown away and others ﷺ that he was perfect in his creation –
🔹Surah Al Ahzab 69:
(يَـٰٓأَيُّہَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ لَا تَكُونُواْ كَٱلَّذِينَ ءَاذَوۡاْ مُوسَىٰ فَبَرَّأَهُ ٱللَّهُ مِمَّا قَالُواْۚ وَكَانَ عِندَ ٱللَّهِ وَجِيہً۬ا)
_(you who believe! Be not like those who annoyed Mûsa (Moses), but Allâh cleared him of that which they alleged, and he was honourable before Allâh)_
🍇 The messengers are perfect in their behavior. Allah (swt) told the Prophet (ﷺ) in
🔹Surah Al Qalam 4:
(وَإِنَّكَ لَعَلَىٰ خُلُقٍ عَظِيمٍ۬)
_(And verily, you (O Muhammad ﷺ) are on an exalted (standard of) character)_
🌱 They are the best in their lineage and come from the best families because they will then speak to the people. We know that the most honorable among you with Allah (swt) are the ones with the most taqwa, but for the messengers they came from noble lineages.
🌱 All of the messengers are men, it doesn’t suit a woman to be a messenger.
🔹Surah Al Anbiya 7:
(وَمَآ أَرۡسَلۡنَا قَبۡلَكَ إِلَّا رِجَالاً۬ نُّوحِىٓ إِلَيۡہِمۡۖ)
_(And We sent not before you (O Muhammad ﷺ) but men to whom We revealed)_
🍇 One of the perfection for men is to be messengers, the messengers need to be dedicated 24 hours. Women have responsibilities, they can get emotional, they think many things at the same time, while men just think straight.
🌱 It’s not the perfection of a woman to be a messenger, but Allah (swt) gave women other ways to be perfect.
(عَنْ أَنَسٍ، رضى الله عنه أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ “ حَسْبُكَ مِنْ نِسَاءِ الْعَالَمِينَ مَرْيَمُ ابْنَةُ عِمْرَانَ وَخَدِيجَةُ بِنْتُ خُوَيْلِدٍ وَفَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ مُحَمَّدٍ وَآسِيَةُ امْرَأَةُ فِرْعَوْنَ)
_(Narrated Anas [may Allah be pleased with him]: that the Prophet (ﷺ) said: “Sufficient for you among the women of mankind are Mariam bint ‘Imran, Khadijah bint Khuwailid, Fatimah bint Muhammad and Asiyah the wife of Fir’awn.”)_
☁ At Tirmidhi Book 49, Hadith 4252
🍇 Many men are messengers who are complete, but there are four complete women – *Asiya wife of Firaoun, Khadija bin Khuwailid (ra), Maryam bint Imran, Fatima bint Mohammed (ﷺ).*
🌱 They are the best women in the world. Nowadays women are being used as objects to promote products and a women is measured according to how she looks. But alhamdulliah with Islam, the woman is honored like a preserved pearl. That’s why the rulings in Islam for women are to protect the lady because she is precious.
🌱 It is important to know what these women did to deserve to be the complete women. And no one will be more complete than them until the Day of Judgement. And in paradise they are the best of women, subhan Allah. May Allah (swt) admit us to paradise to see them. Ameen. It’s a regret to know about other ladies while not knowing about the four complete women, subhan Allah.
🍇 The examples of these four women are collective of all situations of all ladies all over the world. Women are either married or not, and either they’re married to someone righteous or not.