*Four Complete Women*
🌸 Note 1⃣
☘ In Islam, Allah (swt) gave the woman a Precious position because there is an entire surah called An Nisa’a (The Women) (النساء), but you don’t find a surah called Ar Rijjal (The Men) (الرجال). Surah An Nisa’a is also one of the long surahs of the Quran.
☘ Women are not half or quarter of the society but they are the whole of society because they take care of the children and the husbands. A house is a Paradise when a woman is righteous and a house is a hell when the woman is not righteous, and this shows the stability of the house is dependent on the woman, subhan Allah.
☘ Alhamdulliah Allah is Ar Rabb ~(The Nurturer )He is nurturing us and this is an opening from Allah (swt) to nurture us through knowledge and to teach us about the Four Complete Women.
☘ All women have four examples to consider whereas men have many examples from the messengers and companions.
🔹Hadith: The Prophet (ﷺ) said:
(قال رسولُ اللهِ – صلَّى اللهُ عليهِ وسلَّم – : المرأةُ إذا صَلَّتْ خَمسَها ، وصامتْ شَهرَها ، وأَحصنتْ فَرجَها ، وأطاعت بَعلَها ؛ فَلْتَدْخُلِ مِنْ أَيِّ أبوابِ الجنةِ شاءتْ)
_The lady who prays
her five prayers, fasts her Ramadan, protects her chastity and obeys her husband, then she will enter paradise from any gate she wishes_ 🌩Mishkat Al Misbah 3190, Authenticated by Al Albani as Hasan
🌷 These are the four golden rules, subhan Allah. She will get to enter from any of the eight gates of paradise. Sometimes a lady might do more voluntaries, but she’s not obeying her husband. Or she’s doing the obligations but not guarding her chastity. Imagine if a lady is following these four golden rules and she’s doing voluntaries
– this is light upon light (نورا على نور)
☘ If a person were to do a search for a complete woman, either it would come up with a lady with outer looks or a lady with a successful career. However the four complete women which Allah (swt) tells us have the common factor of *servitude to Allah (swt)*.
☘Your perfection is when you obey Allah (swt). All four ladies are devoted to Allah (swt) and they are serving their homes – they are good to their husbands and children.
🍃 Asiya the wife of Firaoun is complete because of her patience on the decree of having a tyrant husband. She was patient and asked Allah (swt) to build her a home in paradise and to protect her from his evil. She didn’t wish to die.
🍃 Khadija (ra) was the wife of the Prophet (ﷺ), she was a businesswoman but what made her complete❓ Her support of her husband. She never put him down or disregarded him – she gave him full attention. Don’t say she’s lucky and Asiya is unlucky. Allah (swt) knows you and He knows what’s good for you. It’s not about good luck or bad luck. *Allah (swt) knows what’s good for everyone*
Every human being has a strength and goodness in them, and when you obey Allah (swt) this strength will appear, subhan Allah. All the decrees you go to are in order to bring out your strength. Allah (swt) knows which situation is suitable for you.